Resources

Articles & Parenting Resources

A collection of writing on play therapy, child development, and practical strategies for supporting your child or teen.

Teens

Special Time with Teens

I often teach parents of young children about “special time” and advise parents to carve out about twenty minutes a day to play with their child. During th…

Parenting

Sleep Struggles

So many parents, new and seasoned, have dealt with bedtime or middle of the night crying from their child at least once and for some this is an ongoing str…

Parenting

How is Emotional Regulation Learned

Emotional regulation is the ability to manage one’s feelings. As adults we have trouble with this at times so imagine a child trying to navigate such a hug…

Parenting

Repairing the Relationship with Your Child After a Mistake

We hear it all the time… “we all make mistakes, nobody is perfect”. We hear it all the time because it is so true! I was first introduced to the concept of…

Parenting

Reframing your Child’s Behavior

I believe that as adults we sometimes get stuck in thinking that our children think like adults which is what leads parents to view their children’s acting…

Parenting

Transitioning Back to School

It’s that time of year again..summer is coming to a close and school is around the corner. This can be a stressful time for families as summer time may hav…

Play Therapy

Make-believe Play

An article found here discusses the importance of old fashioned play time. As a play therapist this is something I am a huge advocate of and yet see it les…

Parenting

Summer Scheduling

As summer approaches children are feeling excited about the freedom they will have over the coming months, but parents are often left feeling anxious about…

Parenting

Keeping Children Safe

Most of us are familiar with the “stranger danger” campaign which was designed to protect children from sexual abuse. At a recent family gathering, it was …

Parenting

Emotional Expression in Children

Teaching children how to express their emotions in appropriate ways is possible. This does not mean that your child will never have a tantrum or behave in …

Teens

Parenting Tweens

I find a lot of parents struggle to parent their tweens who have “bad attitudes”, are “disrespectful”, and “emotional”. A great article from parenting.com …

Parenting

Lying..Maybe Not All Bad

A study shows children as young as 2 are capable of telling small lies. The study found 25% of children that age say little lies. It’s not just to cover-up…

Parenting

Why So Many Questions

Early on in my play therapy career I learned that asking questions during a play session with a client is frowned upon. I understood the reasoning behind i…

Parenting

When to Set Boundaries

Janet Lansbury discusses when to say “yes” to something as a parent versus when to set a boundary in an intriguing article. She says to say “yes” to your c…

Parenting

New Study on Temper Tantrums

An article from Time magazine by Bonnie Rochman discusses a study from the journal “Emotion”. The study found that the vocalizations involved in a tantrum …

Parenting

Connecting With Your Child

I recently read a great article from Janet Lansbury called “Don’t Waste an Opportunity to Connect With Your Kids”. The article discusses seven ways we can …

Play Therapy

Principles of Play Therapy

There are eight principles of play therapy derived from Garry Landreth and Virginia Axline. These are things I like to keep in mind when using play therapy…

Play Therapy

Types of Play Therapy

There are several types of play therapy. I generally work from a couple of models including child-centered play therapy and experiential play therapy. In c…

ADHD

ADHD: Differential Diagnosis

ADHD is a common diagnosis among children. Prevalence rates range from 3 to 7 percent of children. Due to ADHD being a widely known diagnosis other causes …

Play Therapy

Introduction to Play Therapy

Gary Landreth discusses why play therapy is helpful for children. Children lack the cognitive and verbal abilities to participate in talk therapy. Since pl…

Play Therapy

Why Play is Important

Garry Landreth, a child-centered play therapist, has stated that play is the language of children, toys are their words, and that play is their natural med…

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